TIPS FOR SOLVING RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS

ROMANCE & RELATIONSHIP 

You may be in a loving relationship, but, you don't know the first thing about how to romance from the heart. Sure, you can say, I love you, just fine, but, all those wonderful, romantic ideas just seem to escape you.

You can simply follow the guidance and do the do things, or, you can adapt the suggestions below to your own nature. Either way, you will be well on your way to solving your relationship problems

A Week in the Life of a True Romantic

Day 1:

~ Leave a note professing your love for your partner to find during the day. Put the note where it will be found, easily. Try their briefcase, the driver’s seat of their car, in their coat pocket, in their lunch bag, taped to the receiver of the phone, taped to their computer, or left taped to a doorknob.

~ As soon as you arrive home for the day seek out your partner and offer a big, loving kiss. Tell your partner how much you love him or her and ask about their day. Make this a new, daily habit.

~ As an alternate idea, when your partner arrives home for the day, take their hand and pull them towards you aggressively. Offer a huge hug, kiss and say, "I missed you today!

Day 2:

~ While your partner showers, heat up his or her towel in the dryer.
~ Have flowers delivered to partner at work.
~ Surprise your partner by arriving home with their favorite drink, snack, or ice-cream.

Day 3:

~ Arrange for an intimate lunch date with your partner.
~ Afterward, send a virtual card. Tell them how much you enjoyed lunch together.

Day 4:

~ Call your partner in the middle of the day to discuss your romantic plans for that evening.
~ Print out some love coupons (find them on-line) and present them to your partner. One might say: this entitles loved one to a full-body massage, and sign your name.

Day 5:

~ For the kid in all of us! Use multi-colored, sidewalk chalk to draw a BIG heart in red and write. Print out the words, I love you" in the middle of the heart. Do this someplace that is prominent such as on your driveway so that when your partner comes home he or she will see it.
~ Cook a favorite meal for your partner and then eat it, slowly, by candlelight.

Day 6:

~When the weather is best, take a brisk walk through a nature trail with your love and talk about all the reasons why he or she is so special to you.
~ If the weather is dreary, have an indoor picnic. Spend the time together, inside enjoying your favorite board games and just relaxing and talking.
~ Cuddle up in your pjs and relish a romantic movie together.

Day 7:

~ Just sleep in and cuddle together. Call into work and explain you are under the weather and need to rest a bit more before coming in.
~ Make a long list of the many reasons why you love your partner as you do and then have them framed and present it to him or her.
~ If you don't live together, call your loved one just to say goodnight. Recite a favorite love poem over the phone and end with, Sweet dreams, until we meet again!

you can also read my previous article on steps to a happy relationship                                                  have a sweet Romance this weekend

ROMANTIC DATING ADVICE FOR WOMEN

ROMANCE & RELATIONSHIP TIPS

Today on Relationships tips i will be telling you about  FLIRTING and the meaning of colors of ROSE, so next you giving a Rose gift  to your love ..you attach a color code  

FLIRTING

It is rather difficult to be romantic without first flirting. What exactly is flirting and how can you adapt some flirting into your own romantic moods and play? 

To begin, you don't want to be too aggressive.
Start with very friendly gestures and once you have gotten those moves down, and then go for the romantic flirting!

Flirting is a frame of mind:

Be self-confident and do not be afraid to take risks.
Be enthusiastic about romance and be positive!
Start a sexy conversation:
Start with a simple, opening line by saying hello.
Talk about anything at all, whatever will get the romance going.
Enjoy yourself and have fun:
Be playful, light-hearted and above all, be spontaneous.
Show that you can be vulnerable.
Make good use of all props:
Always use a prop.
Props will get the conversation started naturally. They encourage conversation and others will want to start talking to you.

Great props are: pets, children, great jewelry, a wonderful scent, a sweatshirt with your favorite sports teams emblem, an interesting book or magazine.

Play host:
Take the lead by taking on the role of host.
Do not be the passive person in waiting, but rather the lead.

Introduce yourself first:
Move closer to the person you want to meet and introduce yourself confidently!

Listen-up:
Everyone loves to be heard and when you are a good listener your partner will be drawn to you.

Make bold eye contact:
Look your partner in the eye gently (no more than 2-4 seconds) and then look away. You don't want to stare!

Pay a genuine compliment:
Your partner will be pleased and will warm up to you more.

Show a beautiful smile:
You will look so much more approachable. Everyone is attracted to a genuine and heartfelt, smile. So there you go! These are all ground-breakers when wanting to approach someone with romance. 

We must always be mindful of the fundamentals.
When we just dive right in, unexpected, we can turn our loved one off. Go slow, a step at a time and feeling confident, approach with your best romance moves.

ENHANCE YOUR LOVE LIFE WITH A SPECIAL GIFT OF ROSES

Have you ever wished you could come up with a new gift idea to show your loved one how you feel?
Have you ever wondered about what the different colors of Roses actually mean? For instance, next time you choose a specific color of Rose, do so to convey a special meaning.

Look below and learn what the different Rose colors represent and next time you buy a Rose as a gift, deliver a loving message at the same time.

Colored Roses and What Each Color Means

Red - Love, I Love You
Pink - Perfect Happiness, Please Believe Me
Peach - Modesty
White - Innocence and Purity, I am Worthy of You, You’re Heavenly
Orange - Fascination
Yellow - Texas Love, Joy and Friendship
Single Full Bloomed Rose - I Love You, I Still Love You
White and Red Mixed - Unity
Rosebud - Beauty and Youth, A Heart of Innocent Love
Rosebud (Red) - Pure and Lovely
Rosebud (White) - Girlhood
Bridal - Happy Love
Christmas - Tranquilize My Anxiety
Damask - Persian Ambassador of Love
Dark Crimson - Mourning or Loss
Hibiscus - Delicate Beauty
Leaf - You May Hope
Tea - I’ll Remember Always
Thornless - Love at First Sight

Bouquet of Mature Blooms - Gratitude

Next time you buy your loved one a Rose as a gift, attach a handwritten card to convey the message to him/her that the color means. This is a great way to enhance your love life!

Here are some great examples for you to adapt for yourself:

Tea Rose -- Last night was very special. Ill Remember Always!
Dark Crimson-- You mean so much to me. Can we try again just one more time?
Rosebud (Red)-- You take my breath away! You look so lovely!
Orange -- You fascinate me! Can we spend more time together?
Even smaller, simpler messages will enhance your love life and will thrill your partner!
                                                          Romantic dating advice for women

10 STEPS TO A HAPPY RELATIONSHIP

ROMANCE & RELATIONSHIP

On my post today i will be telling you 10 more steps you can take in revamping your Relationship.

1. Listen to How You Talk 
When working on your relationship, more than likely you and your mate have settled into pattern of speaking to each other. It might be with short, blunt answers, heavy sighs as though bothered, or with negative remarks. Pay attention to not only your words spoken, but also the tone in which they are spoken. Be positive, cheery, and respond in a way that will confirm to your mate that you are listening and truly interested – that you have time to listen and communicate. In addition, add terms of endearment into your conversation. Instead of “Good morning,” try, “Hi honey, good morning!”

2. Making Love 
 Intimacy is a huge part of a successful relationship. Choose a book from the bookstore and try to bring a little excitement into your relationship. Do not be afraid to experiment and learn new and exciting ways to please each other. Keeping intimacy alive is healthy and not a bad thing whatsoever! 

3. Turn the Computer Off 
Often the computer becomes a replacement for a lack of something in the relationship. It might be just surfing, playing games, or getting involved with websites that promote pornography. If you notice that your mate is spending more and more time on the computer, take this as a sign that even if not doing anything wrong, they are choosing to spend the time with the computer instead of you. In other words, use this as a sign that something is missing in your relationship. Start by talking and searching to confirm what it is bothering your mate and then work on making it better!

 4. Follow Tradition 
Keep some tradition in your marriage, which relates to the vows you took and the fact that marriage is sacred. Treat each anniversary as a celebration of your love and the time spent together. Follow the traditional anniversary gifts and see how creative you can be. The first year anniversary gift is paper. One husband bought his wife a beautiful Chinese drawing on rice paper, signed by the artist, and had it framed for her. Make this fun, exciting, and keep traditions alive. 

5. Control Your Anger 
Every relationship has difficulties, and sometimes, there can be some intense arguments. For the sake of your relationship and the love you have for your mate, keep your anger in check. First, when people are angry, hurtful words fly, usually not even meant. However, after spoken, it is too late to take them back – the damage is done. Another problem with anger is that the word “divorce” can easily be thrown around. You may not mean it, but you know it hurts, thus making you the winner of the argument. NEVER talk about divorce in your relationship, even if just teasing. If you need to go to another room to cool off, and then do that, but whatever you do, do not allow your anger to take control of your relationship. 

6. Financial Woes 
One of the main reasons other than fidelity that marriages fall apart is due to finances. When couples are struggling with money problems, tempers flare, frustration builds, drinking may start, and it is an all-around unhealthy situation. The minute there are any signs of financial difficulties, the two of you need to immediately sit down and figure out a plan on how to deal with the problem. If needed, go to see a financial consultant or a credit counseling service to help you get back on track. Do not allow your finances to get out of line or your relationship will certainly suffer.

7. I Forgive You 
If something has happened in your relationship causing the trust to waiver, you will have many things to work through. When your mate has done something that requires you to forgive, you have to forgive, REALLY forgive. Once you have worked through the issue either together or with professional counseling, and you tell them that you forgive them, you can never hold that over them again. As an example, if your mate has had an affair and the two of you choose to work it out rather than throw the relationship away, once the problems are resolved and the forgiveness is said, it is done! This means that you cannot stalk your mate to ensure they are where they said they would be, call or page them throughout the day, constantly ask for reaffirmation of your relationship, it means that you forgive and put the past behind you and then move on in a new, strong, and healthy relationship. It will not be easy, but you can do it with the right help, attitude, and commitment. 

8. Fighting No-No 
While having disagreements is normal and sometimes when controlled, healthy for relationships, the place and degree of discussion are important. Keep your disagreements private. Being at a party or anywhere around family or friends and breaking into an argument is a great way to break down a relationship. Not only does it cause embarrassment for your mate, but it also puts a negative light on both of you from the people witnessing the fight. If you are in public and think you need to argue, at least find a quiet corner or separate room where you can discuss whatever it is bothering you. 

9. Strong Family Ties 
When in a relationship, not only are you involved with the love of your life, but also the family of your mate. It is important to build a strong, healthy relationship with the families as well. Even if you do not see them often, having a good connection with your mate’s family will make life for everyone much better all the way around. 

10. Mentoring 
If you know of another couple from work or your church that has been married for many years and continued to have a strong relationship, ask them if they would mentor you. Being around positive influences and watching someone who leads by example is a great way to learn how to have a good relationship for yourself.
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